Lily is our little mama! She definitely has a mother's spirit. She's a mama to Ashton, Samara, and so many others.
She loves her bible! I love watching her thirst for God's word. I pray her thirst for HIS word will continue.
Can't believe how grown up she is getting! In just 3 short weeks we will officially have a 4th grader in the house.
She finished her first Lacrosse season. Two weeks ago she got an award for being "as tough as nails". I think she really enjoyed her lacrosse experience. Olav and I have really enjoyed watching her!
We just went camping with our fellow adoptee Guate friends. Lily, Rudy and Liliana had a blast as always.
Monday, June 1, 2015
Saturday, May 2, 2015
Thursday, April 23, 2015
April Whirlwind!
Well, April has kicked off with a huge whirlwind. On April 1st, Lily, Decka, and I boarded a plane for Guatemala to visit Bubby Patricia and Guillermo for Semana Santa. What an amazing time. While there we visited two different hogars (orphanages)
The first one was Oasis, which is basically a foster care home for girls who have been sexually abused, physically abused, and neglected. Here the girls get a chance to go to school, go to therapy several times a week, and have a safe place to live where they receive physical, emotional, and spiritual care. Some of the girls have families and some do not. Bill and Pat act as God parents to one of the young ladies, named Tatiana in Oasis. She is 17 years old and has a very rough past. Including being sold when she was young for 50 Quetzals (equivalent to about $7 US). Being kidnapped, being sexually molested and abused by family members, etc. She has run away from previous orphanages and has been at Oasis for 3 years, apparently the longest placement she has ever had. She could speak a little English and she and Lily bonded over "camera wars" i.e. taking each other pictures with their respective cameras. If you ask Lily what her favorite part of her trip to Guatemala and Tatiana is in the top 3.
In addition to young girls, they have also opened up a new wing, which includes a young mama's ward for young women who have been raped and impregnated and are now raising babies. Hard to believe the girls were 12, 14, and 15 with babies ranging from 9 months to 18 months. Meaning that one of the girls was impregnated at age 11. The Tia's (house mothers) basically teach them how to parent and also parent them.
The second hogar we went to was called Luz de Maria. There were 31 children of both genders from ages 6 months to 10 years. There were three nineras (caretakers) who were responsible for them. I think it was overwhelming for Lily and Decka. I did talk Lily and Decka into holding a baby to help with their brain development. Lily also handed out rice crispy treats that she and Bubby made.
While in Guatemala we also went to a wheelchair ministry called Hope Haven. Since it was a holiday the shop was empty, but it was really cool to see the facility where families' lives are changed by gaining mobility. Lily and Jessica really enjoyed climbing the avocado tree, playing avocado soccer, and bonding with the dogs.
Another highlight of Guatemala was meeting our Compassion child, Kimberly. We spent the morning and early afternoon at the Children's Museum in Guatemala City. What a wonderful experience it was for everyone! It really broke down the language barrier!
We also went to Lake Atilan. Even though we had been to Panahajael/Lake Atitlan when we lived in Guatemala, I never took her across the lake due to the "public boats" which have 15 life jackets and are packed with lots and lots of people! But now since she can swim better than anyone in our family, we went across the lake! Lily loved being at the head of the boat! We enjoyed an amazing afternoon at the La Casa de Mundo and walked to the village of Jabilito. We hoped to see a bit more, but we ran out of time. Next time!
In addition to all the sightseeing, Lily and Decka endured me reuniting with friends. We saw Antonio, Sonia, and their daughter Cessy. It was their house that Lily ran into that allowed us to eventually leave the country! We also saw Lily's old nanny Elaina and our former caretaker of our first apartment in Antigua, Christina, and her daughter Erika.
Last but least through it all we got to enjoy time visiting Bubby Patricia and Guillermo. Lily loved being there and loved their dogs...Tresy Lee, Pinky Lupit, and Lucy Kathleen.
The first one was Oasis, which is basically a foster care home for girls who have been sexually abused, physically abused, and neglected. Here the girls get a chance to go to school, go to therapy several times a week, and have a safe place to live where they receive physical, emotional, and spiritual care. Some of the girls have families and some do not. Bill and Pat act as God parents to one of the young ladies, named Tatiana in Oasis. She is 17 years old and has a very rough past. Including being sold when she was young for 50 Quetzals (equivalent to about $7 US). Being kidnapped, being sexually molested and abused by family members, etc. She has run away from previous orphanages and has been at Oasis for 3 years, apparently the longest placement she has ever had. She could speak a little English and she and Lily bonded over "camera wars" i.e. taking each other pictures with their respective cameras. If you ask Lily what her favorite part of her trip to Guatemala and Tatiana is in the top 3.
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| Oasis |
| Tatiana |
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| Some of the girls playing with their ipads |
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| Tatiana |
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| Some of the mama's and the their babies |
The second hogar we went to was called Luz de Maria. There were 31 children of both genders from ages 6 months to 10 years. There were three nineras (caretakers) who were responsible for them. I think it was overwhelming for Lily and Decka. I did talk Lily and Decka into holding a baby to help with their brain development. Lily also handed out rice crispy treats that she and Bubby made.
While in Guatemala we also went to a wheelchair ministry called Hope Haven. Since it was a holiday the shop was empty, but it was really cool to see the facility where families' lives are changed by gaining mobility. Lily and Jessica really enjoyed climbing the avocado tree, playing avocado soccer, and bonding with the dogs.
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| Hope Haven Warehouse |
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| Climbing the avocado tree |
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| Hope Haven dog, Rita |
Another highlight of Guatemala was meeting our Compassion child, Kimberly. We spent the morning and early afternoon at the Children's Museum in Guatemala City. What a wonderful experience it was for everyone! It really broke down the language barrier!
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| From left to right: Jessica, Kimberly, Lily, Our translator Kimberly, Kimberly's mother, Manuel, Kimberly Compassion teacher, and me! |
Another highlight of Guatemala was celebrating Lily's 9th birthday Guate style! Bubby made her a traditional Guatemala breakfast, yummy chocolate cupcakes, and Lily got some money to do a little shopping in Antigua! She got two pairs of really cute shoes (wish they had my size!) and a Guatemalan purse!
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| Birthday breakfast! |
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| Birthday with tricky candles |
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| Using the stencil! |
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| Posing by tiny part of the finished product |
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| Lily's homemade alformbra |
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| Hill of the Cross |
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| More Hill of the Cross |
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| Pretty Lily at Casa Santo Domingo |
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| More pretty Lily at Casa Santo Domingo |
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| Peace out a Casa Santo Domingo |
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| A beautiful sawdust alformbra |
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| Lily in the tuk-tuk |
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| Lake Atitlan |
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| Dippin her feet in the Lake |
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| Fishing boats on the shores of Lake Atitlan |
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| Front of the boat! |
In addition to all the sightseeing, Lily and Decka endured me reuniting with friends. We saw Antonio, Sonia, and their daughter Cessy. It was their house that Lily ran into that allowed us to eventually leave the country! We also saw Lily's old nanny Elaina and our former caretaker of our first apartment in Antigua, Christina, and her daughter Erika.
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| Christina and Erika |
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| Antonio, Sonia, and Cessy |
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| Elaina |
Last but least through it all we got to enjoy time visiting Bubby Patricia and Guillermo. Lily loved being there and loved their dogs...Tresy Lee, Pinky Lupit, and Lucy Kathleen.
Upon our return, Lily had her first lacrosse game. Olav got an amazing picture of her!
Hopefully later on will come pictures from Easter and her birthday party! Until later!
Sunday, March 22, 2015
A mothers joy....
Lily is such a treasure. There are so many things that she says and does that make me so proud of who she is and the young woman she is becoming.
For example, recently a dear friend's grandmother passed away and Lily was close to her. During the memorial service, they asked if anyone wanted to come up and share some words about "Gram". Lily got up on stage in front of a bunch of people she did not know and shared her special memory of Gram. What a treasure!
Also at the memorial service was our former pastor Mark Vandeermeer was there. Lily had written him a note a few months earlier from her heart telling him how special he is to her. At the memorial service, she ran right up to him and cuddled him throughout the service. It brought tears to everyone's eyes!
Her swimming! She is such an amazing swimmer! Yesterday when she set 4 new personal records, I had tears streaming from my eyes. She has worked so hard to master new skills and her hard work really paid off.
Her heart for God is amazing. She loves Jesus and it shows in almost everything she says and does.
Lastly, she is such a good big sister to Ashton. She loves him, plays with him, protects him, and of course like any good sister tortures him.
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